Are New Year's Resolutions Powerful or Pointless?


Are New Year’s Resolutions Powerful or Pointless - Sticking to our New Year’s Resolutions can be extremely stressful and tricky. Here is why having no resolution might increase our resolve.

It is that time of the year again, where we stress ourselves with following through our New Year’s Resolutions.


According to studies, 80% of people are unable to stick to the resolutions made leading us to wonder if we really need them in the first place? [1]


Why Do New Year’s Resolutions Fail?


Most individuals fail to keep their New Year's resolutions for a variety of reasons. It's a mix of issues, as well as life simply interfering. [2]


Resolutions cannot result in long-term change in behaviour because they are not designed in a way that harvests motivation and converts it into action and change.


1. High Expectations


Many individuals approach New Year's resolutions with an all-or-nothing mentality.


They go from zero to one hundred with no consultation with actuality. Aiming to run a marathon, for example, is unreasonable if you live a sedentary lifestyle and have never done strenuous physical activity before. [3]


2. Being Impatient


Research done by the University of Chicago discovered that whether or not people received an instant reward was the best predictor of whether or not they would stick to their long-term goals.


If we don’t see quick results, we tend to give up. [4]


3. Undefined Goals


One of the most common reasons individuals fail to follow their New Year's resolutions is that they are too vague.


Resolving to "exercise more" or "reduce weight," for example, lacks tools to track success and is unlikely to keep you driven throughout the year. [5]


Why is it Better to Not Have Resolutions?


Resolutions can not only add to the pressure to do well, but they can also make individuals feel like failures by attempting to achieve impossible goals.


Constantly worrying about our resolution or the magical ‘end goal’ can lead to mental health issues such as depression, anxiety or an eating disorder. [6]


Resolutions are not only psychologically impossible at times, but they are also too broad and ambiguous to be translated into motivated action. [7]


How to Achieve our Goals?


While a New Year's resolution might be an opportunity to assess areas for development, research suggests that tackling objectives in a less-pressured manner is preferred and can increase our chances of success. [8]


Instead of creating resolutions, focus on healthy goals and setting intentions, and working toward them with a holistic approach.


Here’s how we can still reach our end goal, without setting resolutions:


1. Ease Into It


Instead of introducing a slew of new habits, which may be overwhelming and difficult to keep, begin progressively incorporating them into your regular routine. [9]


For example, If you are a non-reader, instead of planning to finish a novel each week, start with reading a few pages daily.


2. Be Kind to Yourself


When we lay less emphasis on the outcome, we give ourselves more leeway to make errors while still striving for our goals.


Incorporate self-care techniques and positive self-talk.


Instead of thinking “I am a failure for losing track”, tell yourself “It is OKAY to make mistakes and learn from it.”


3. Break It Up


Set goals for shorter time periods. That way, there's an opportunity to tweak the strategy based on what's effective and what isn't.


Instead of planning for the entire year, set goals for a 30-day period, a week, or even a day - whatever is comfortable to you! It won't ensure success, but you don't have to wait until the next calendar year to give it another shot. [10]


When we begin to create short-term goals that feel more manageable and begin to see success, that achievement keeps us motivated, and we are more likely to adhere to them.


The Takeaway


If you fail to keep your resolution, don't beat yourself up over it. When you initially begin your trip toward your resolve, instead of focusing on the large number of steps remaining, look at what you've already accomplished and enjoy each small victory along the way!


If there is one resolution you should make this year, it should be to not be hard on ourselves by creating strict rules and unattainable goals as New Year’s Resolutions.


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